Christian Working Mom

Support from family as a CWM

2012-01-24T09:32:00.000-08:00

We often talk at CWM about reaction to Moms working from the church or other Moms. That got me to thinking. What kind of reaction did you get from your own mother and mother-in-law (if you have one) about working outside the home?

Christmas Traditions

2011-12-07T09:40:00.001-08:00

What Christmas traditions do you have as a family? Closely related to that question is how do you keep Christ in Christmas?

What do you think of this article?

2011-10-19T05:22:00.000-07:00

Hello Ladies! One of the main complaints I hear from CWMs is there often isn't any meetings at church for them. Read this article and tell me what you think. Do you have Christian women in your life you can be real with and share your struggles?
http://www.churchleaders.com/pastors/pastor-articles/155219-sarah-bessey-why-women-s-ministry-needs-jesus.html.

Advice for new CWMs

2011-08-24T11:51:00.000-07:00

I often get surveys from CWM who are either returning to the work force after years at home or just had a baby. Both feel tremendous guilt about working. If you could give advice to a new CWM what would it be?

How is your family doing in these tough times economically?

2011-08-24T11:43:00.000-07:00

I really have two questions for my wise CWM sisters in Christ. One, what ways are you trying to save money in these tough economic times? I know every time I go to the grocery store it seems I pay more for less food. Second, is someone in your family out of work right now? If so, how are you coping and what things are you trying to do to encourage your family?

One thing I know for sure, as a therapist, we may try to hide hard times from our children but they always know something is going on. Difficult times are an excellent way to teach about God's sovereign control in our lives.

I look forward to hearing your comments.

What life lessons is your family learning?

2011-06-09T07:42:00.000-07:00

This past school year my family learned the important lesson of perseverance. My children just finished 7th and 11th grade. Both grades are really tough and we got through it. I think my children learn the importance lesson of sticking with things even when they are tough. What lessons is your family learning right now? Please share.

What does your family do for fun?

2011-04-21T14:59:00.000-07:00

Families are really busy and sometimes we get too busy for fun. What does your family do for fun?

What are some of your prayers as a Mom?

2011-02-04T13:23:00.000-08:00

Often as Moms it is hard to find time to pray. What are some of the things you pray about as a Mom, if you are willing to share?

How does your family reach out to others?

2011-01-25T11:06:00.001-08:00

As parents children often observe us more than listen to our words. Does your family serve together some way in your church or community? If so, can you please share what you do?

Snow Week

2011-01-11T12:36:00.000-08:00

I live in the Southeast and we have 7 to 9 inches of snow. We are not talking a snow day now, we are almost a snow week. 3 days and counting so far. We have enough food for now. So, what does your family like to do on snow days?

How do you teach your children to be Thankful?

2010-11-04T14:35:00.000-07:00

Thanksgiving is coming. As Christians every day should be Thanksgiving. We should daily praise and thank God for who He is and the many blessings he has given us. Most of all that we are thankful for the gift of salvation and that He drew us to Himself. Our world does not focus on thankfulness. So, please share some ways you help teach your children to be thankful.

What is your biggest struggle?

2010-10-11T10:49:00.000-07:00

As a Christian Working Mom what do you think your biggest struggle is right now? It doesn't necessarily have to be as a CWM. Sometimes I think when we are seeing others struggle just as much as we are we can be encouraged. Also, if you could share what has helped you most during this current struggle. I am in a study right now entitled, "When Life is Hard" by James MacDonald. He said if you are not experiencing trials as a believer then maybe you are not His child. Trials are just part of a believer's life. To find out more read Hebrews 12:1-18. For me right now I know I'm God's child. How about you?

School is starting

2010-08-10T12:54:00.000-07:00

Depending on where you live school is starting in the next few weeks. My children start next week. I'm curious do you buy school supplies before school starts, after school starts, or throughout the year? Any special back to school traditions you have as a family?

How can your church support you as a CWM?

2010-07-23T14:48:00.000-07:00

Often we talk about how we don't feel the church supports us as a CWM. What could your church specifically do to support you as a CWM?

Open Comment Section

2010-06-21T13:30:00.000-07:00

Feel free to start any new discussions or questions here.

CWM Bible Studies

2010-06-21T13:28:00.000-07:00

I have talked to several CWMs lately who have started Bible studies at their church or in their community for CWMs. If you have started a group could you share your experience and what resources you use?

Also, I have been giving some thought to possibly working on Bible studies for CWMs to use in a group. Is that something you would be interested in?

Thanks in advance for your help and I'm looking forward to learning what you all are doing.

Prayer Request for Kyron

2010-06-10T14:16:00.000-07:00

One of our CWMs lives in Oregon. There is a child Kyron Homan who was last seen at his school walking to class and has not been seen since. Kyron is only 7 years old. To find out more information go to: http://www.kgw.com for more information. Please keep him and his family in your prayers. May Kyron be found soon.

Does your church serve baby food or solid food?

2010-06-09T07:34:00.000-07:00

A very sad statistic recently came out that between 58-84% of graduating youth from church youth groups are not returning to church. A trend I'm noticing in children and youth programs at churches is the goal is to entertain and have fun. There doesn't seem to be a lot of solid Bible teaching going on. Now I know that is not true in all churches. So, my question to you is does your church still serve baby food or has it graduated to solid food? Do you feel you are getting in-depth study of the word in your own Sunday School class or small group?

I'm Bored

2010-06-07T11:16:00.000-07:00

Summer is here, (maybe not officially) because children are getting out of school. I have posted this before, but how do you handle the inevitable "I'm Bored" during the summer. Also, what free or low cost things have you found to do?

Is May busier than December

2010-05-24T06:54:00.000-07:00

For all you CWMs who have school age children is May a busier month than December for you? Just this week I have 2 nights with both children having events at the same time in, of course, different places. This month has been crazy!

Recent Interview of Kimberly

2010-04-27T09:42:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone. Sheila Wray Gregorie has a wonderful ministry to Moms and Christian women in general. Recently, I was interviewed by her on her Blog Radio program. If you would like to listen to the interview here is the link:
http://christianwomensspeaker.wordpress.com/2010/04/14/use-your-words-building-with-kids-underfoot/

What do you like best about being a Mom?

2010-04-26T08:49:00.000-07:00

In honor of Mother's Day coming up, what do you like best about being a Mom? I will start the discussion. I love watching my children excel in the talents God has given them. It is so neat to see them coming into their own personalities.

Open Comment Section

2010-04-05T16:24:00.001-07:00

Here is where you can post any questions you may have or start new discussions.

Is your work place Christian friendly?

2010-04-05T16:21:00.001-07:00

I'm interested in what your work place is like. Are you the only Christian at your workplace or are there other believers? How comfortable are you shining Christ light in your workplace? Looking forward to what you have to share.

Easter is coming

2010-03-08T13:11:00.000-08:00

How do you celebrate Easter at your house? Do you have any creative ways of sharing your faith during this time of celebration of our Lord's death and resurrection?

Prayer Requests

2010-02-22T10:46:00.000-08:00

I thought we could come together more as a CWM community when we pray for one another. The web is a very public place. So, if you would like to post a prayer request be careful how many details you share. God knows who you are and your need. Then, let's agree to pray for one another. If you agree to pray for someone who leaves a request, please let them know by posting here on the blog. Thanks in advance for praying and Praise God for answered prayer.

Valentine's Day

2010-02-05T08:17:00.000-08:00

Do you like Valentine's Day? I'm not trying to trip you up. Some people feel Valentine's Day was invented by Hallmark (maybe it was - I don't know). Others love doing the romantic thing. I know for us often we couldn't find a babysitter or a non busy restaurant to go out to on Valentine's Day. So, be honest do you like Valentine's Day or do you feel pressured by it? Not to mention often you have to give valentines for your children's class as well.

Is there anything wrong with Facebook and Social Media?

2010-01-07T11:16:00.000-08:00

I would really like your input about Facebook. Are you on Facebook, myspace, twitter, etc? How much time do you spend on those activities? Here is my dilemna. First, of all most of these sites people are extremely focused on self and share that with everyone else. Secondly, as a therapist I am seeing an explosion of Facebook affairs. People getting connected with their highschool sweethearts again and leaving their families. Now on the flip side. I enjoy staying connected with my nieces who live in another state. Also, friends that live in other states. I just think there is a danger with Facebook. Also, do you use Facebook, etc. to share Christ with others? I think as with anything we need to watch how we spend our time and does it glorify God. I'm interested to hear what you think.

Keeping Christ in Christmas

2009-12-02T11:00:00.000-08:00

How do you try to keep Christ in Christmas in your home? Do you have any specific traditions?

Are you spending less for Christmas this year?

2009-12-02T10:59:00.000-08:00

I know times are tough economically right now. Are you planning on spending less this Christmas? Do you have any money saving tips you would like to share?

Open Comment Section

2009-11-06T08:31:00.001-08:00

Feel free to post any questions or start discussions here.

How do you teach your children to be Thankful?

2009-11-06T08:29:00.000-08:00

As we come upon the Thanksgiving holiday in the United States we focus on being thankful. How do you teach your children to be thankful? I truly think it is a learned habit and does not come naturally. Looking forward to see what you have to share.

Helpful websites that encourage moms

2009-10-08T09:25:00.001-07:00

Hello everyone. Haila one of our CWMs shared with me one of her favorite encouraging Mom websites. You can find it here: http://www.moneysavingmom.com. Feel free to share your favorite websites that help or encourage Moms.

Halloween

2009-10-05T10:19:00.000-07:00

This is my annual Halloween post. What does your family do about Halloween? Do you have a Fall Festival at your church? Do you trick or treat? or do you choose to do nothing? I always look forward to hearing your answers.

Do you feel like the Family's Post it Note?

2009-09-20T17:22:00.000-07:00

It seems every day I'm reminding someone in my family to take something to school or make sure something gets done. I do believe I am a Human post it note. No wonder I can't ever remember anything, because too much is in my head for the rest of the family. Am I the only human post it note?

Children, Cell Phones, Texting

2009-09-07T16:37:00.000-07:00

As our society becomes more and more tied to cell phones our children think they "need" to have a cell phone. So, here are my questions. Do your children have cell phones? If so, how old were they when they got their first phone? If your child has a phone do they have texting? Have you had problems with your children "sexting" - receiving or sending sexual pictures?
I have found parental peer pressure is just as harsh as teen peer pressure sometimes. As Christian Working Moms is there a difference?

CWM Bible Studies

2009-08-22T11:00:00.001-07:00

Do you have a CWM Bible Study at your church or are you leading a Bible Study? Please share your experiences and what curriculum you are using. We can encourage one another.

Crock Pot Recipes

2009-08-22T10:58:00.000-07:00

On another post we talked about using a crock pot for those crazy days when you have soccer practice, etc. I'm looking for some new crock pot recipes. So, please share some of your favorites.

Open Comment Section

2009-08-18T06:10:00.000-07:00

Feel free to ask other Christian Working Moms questions here and to support one another.

Tips to make a Mom's Life easier

2009-08-18T06:08:00.000-07:00

I thought we could share with one another tips you have for getting out of the door in the morning in a less frazzled way. Also, how do you handle dinners at night with soccer games, etc.? Right now I'm wondering how I'm going to do dinner when school starts. My son will have soccer practices and games. My daughter has Marching band practice. Will we even have time to eat? Can't wait to hear your tips.

Mom Experiences

2009-08-05T13:24:00.000-07:00

What is the most unique thing you have experienced as a Mom and would only happen, because you are a Mom? For example, in my house right now I have 2 firebelly toads, a golden gecko, house lizard, and a Mountain horn dragon lizard. Absolutely, would not have happened if I didn't have a son who is really into reptiles. Can't wait to hear what you have to share.

When do your children return to school?

2009-07-31T14:17:00.000-07:00

I know in different parts of the country, children go back to school at different times. This year we are starting two weeks later than normal due to school construction. So, we start September 1st. Normally, it is about the 3rd week in August. I have a feeling around mid August we all we be a little "crazy". When do your children return to school? Is that a sad or happy time for you?

Free weightloss website

2009-07-31T14:13:00.000-07:00

I don't know about you, but I need to lose some weight. It definitely gets harder as you get older. I just found a really neat website, www.sparkpeople.com. The website is free and has tons of resources. You can enter what you eat during the day and it will calculate the calories, protetin, carbs, etc. Just the act of recording what you eat gets your attention. There is also exercise information. They have a site for teens as well. Just thought I would share that with my sisters in Christ. Feel free to add any tips you may have. One thing I noticed especially when I became a Mom is if my kids got a snack I needed one too, so that definitely puts on some of the pounds.

Are you on Twitter?

2009-07-13T07:15:00.000-07:00

Just wondering how many of you are on Twitter and if you tweet? Did I use the right lingo? I'm debating about having Christian Working Mom on Twitter and then a Bible verse or a word of encouragement could be sent out. What do you think?

Michael Jackson

2009-07-09T17:06:00.000-07:00

How can we use Michael Jackson's death as a way to introduce people to Christ? The reason I'm thinking about this is Michael Jackson had to be one of the wealthiest people in the world, yet money did not buy him happiness. We all know the true source of contentment and happiness. Please share your thoughts.

Bored!!

2009-06-23T12:39:00.000-07:00

How do you handle when your children say, "I'm bored"? It happens a lot in the summer.
Do you have any creative ideas?

Open Comment Section

2009-06-05T16:38:00.001-07:00

Feel free to start any new topics here or to ask questions. We can support one another as CWMs.

Father's Day

2009-06-05T16:37:00.001-07:00

How do you celebrate Father's Day with your own husband or your father? Do you have any special traditions?

What do you like best about the summer?

2009-05-22T10:27:00.001-07:00

Are things more relaxed at your house in the summer? What do you like best about the summer?

Unique Mother's Day Gift

2009-05-04T08:13:00.000-07:00

What is the most unique Mother's Day gift you have ever received?

Facebook group for CWMs

2009-04-07T11:28:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone,

I have started a Facebook Group and Discussion for Christian Working Moms. Go to Facebook and search Christian Working Mom. When you find the group click on the one that says God (hearts) Christian Working Moms. Another way for us to connect. Let me know if you have any problems.

Job Opportunities

2009-03-18T16:56:00.000-07:00

One CWM recently shared she lost her job. We discussed the possibility of being able to share job openings in our areas or people who are looking for jobs. I'm struggling with how to get this started. I think this is a great idea. I don't want people to get spammed with email. So, if you all have any ideas on how we could organize this please let me know. Do pray for our CWM sisters who have lost their jobs. Pray that God will guide them in their job search.

Stay at Home Dads

2009-03-18T16:54:00.000-07:00

As a CWM are your the sole breadwinner or main breadwinner in your family? Can you share your experience. How do you handle the role switch? Please share.

What is a "good" Mom

2009-03-11T07:54:00.000-07:00

As Moms we often feel inferior at times. As CWMs we are called to different standards. So, what do you think are the characteristics of a "good" Mom?

Open Comment Section

2009-03-11T07:53:00.000-07:00

Here is a place to ask questions and get support from other CWMs. May we help one another as sisters in Christ.

How do you save money?

2009-03-11T07:52:00.000-07:00

Right now these are tough economic times. Can you share some ways that you are trying to save money? Maybe we can learn from on another.

Valentine's Day

2009-02-05T06:02:00.000-08:00

What is the best Valentine's Day gift you have ever received? Also, how do you celebrate Valentine's Day with your children?

Snow Days

2009-01-19T05:36:00.001-08:00

Do you get snow days where you live? Where your children get out of school? What are some of the fun things you do on snow days? Do you get off work. I know for some of you, you may be really tired of the snow. Please share.

Praying for our children

2009-01-07T10:44:00.000-08:00

I found an excellent post on another blog about what we should pray for our children. To find out more go to: http://www.desiringgod.org/Blog/590_texts_to_pray_for_our_children/.
Would you add anything else?

New Year's Resolutions

2009-01-05T10:20:00.001-08:00

Have you made any New Year's Resolutions? If so, please share.

Open Comment Section

2008-12-17T06:55:00.000-08:00

Please feel free to start any new discussions here. You can ask questions. Let's support one another as Christian sisters.

When do you open Christmas presents?

2008-12-16T06:48:00.000-08:00

There is a revolt going on in my house about when to open Christmas presents. We use to always open gifts from each other on Christmas Eve and Santa on Christmas day. Now the boys in my house want to open only one gift on Christmas Eve and the rest on Christmas day. The girls want to keep the tradition going. So, what do you do at your house?

Christmas spending and keeping Christ in Christmas

2008-11-17T11:12:00.000-08:00

Due to the slowing economy are you planning on spending less on Christmas presents this year?
Also, how do you keep Christ in Christmas for your children?

Prayer Partner needed

2008-11-06T08:14:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone I had another CWM request a Prayer Partner. If you would like to be a prayer partner email me at kimberly@kimberlychastain.com and put prayer partner in the subject heading. I have heard from numerous women how beneficial having a prayer partner has been.
Feel free to share your experiences of having a prayer partner, to encourage other CWMs.

Have you seen the movie Fireproof?

2008-10-31T05:23:00.000-07:00

Has anyone seen the movie Fireproof, yet? I have not. I would love to hear what you thought
of the movie. Please share.

What does your family do for Halloween?

2008-10-24T15:24:00.000-07:00

Does your family celebrate Halloween? If so, how? Do you go to a Fall Festival at your church or do trick or treating in your neighborhood? Everyone has a different opinion on the subject.
Also, for fun share what your precious children will be dressing up as this year.

Listening to your children

2008-10-08T09:23:00.000-07:00

What have you found are the best ways or times to listen to your children? Do you ever find it hard to listen to your children?

Open Comment Section

2008-09-23T13:11:00.000-07:00

Feel free to start any new discussions or questions here. Let's help one another out.

Prayer Request

2008-09-23T13:06:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone,

Linda, a sister CWM, is praying for a car to help with her home business. She and her husband have only 1 car. So, could you pray with Linda that God would answer their prayer and provide a car? Thanks so much.

What do you think is the hardest age for children?

2008-09-22T09:49:00.001-07:00

My question is really what is the hardest age for you as a parent with the ages of your children?
I use to think babies and toddlers were hard due to sheer fatigue and how little they can do for themselves. Now, I have a teenager in highschool and I'm up late and chauffering to lots of activities. So, this seems harder. What do you think?

Do Mommies get sick?

2008-09-22T09:47:00.000-07:00

Recently, I had a virus and went to the doctor. He told me to get rest. I told him I had a daughter in Marching Band and rest was not something I got. Anyway, here is my question:
Do Mommies get sick and if you do how do you handle it? Do you actually rest or just try to keep plugging along? Please share.

Sarah Palin - CWM as Vice Presidential candidate

2008-09-06T13:42:00.001-07:00

Here in the United States everyone is talking about Governor Sarah Palin as Vice President.
She is a strong pro-life Christian and is a CWM. What do you think about all of this? Also, if you live in another country do you have CWMs in elected office? It would be neat to hear from other countries as well.

Back To School

2008-08-20T19:05:00.000-07:00

What kind of emotions do you have when your kids return to school? I was a little weepy this year, because both of my children started new schools. Please share your thoughts.

Family Devotions

2008-08-13T18:13:00.000-07:00

Does your family have family devotions? If so, how do you do them? What are the ages of your children? Any suggestions would be great.

Open Comment Section

2008-07-12T07:16:00.000-07:00

Feel free to start any new discussions here.

Volunteering at Church

2008-07-12T07:13:00.000-07:00

Darcie made a great suggestion to have a post about volunteering at your church. For example in Vacation Bible School, Sunday School, etc. She shares she is not able to volunteer as much as she likes and that produces guilt sometimes. She also says she struggles with an earnest desire to serve the Lord and balance work and home. The CWM survey continues to be updated and tabulated. The latest survey totals I have stated 52.33% of the respondents volunteer at church. So, CWMs do volunteer at church.

So, how do you handle volunteering at church and if you don't do you feel guilty about it? Please share your thoughts.

Where do you place your loyalty?

2008-07-10T09:51:00.000-07:00

In the July issue of Pearls of Encouragement for CWMs we discuss where we place our loyalty.
A question I have for you is, does your church display your country's flag in the sanctuary?
What did you think about this month's article?

What do you do when the children are away?

2008-06-23T12:12:00.000-07:00

This week both of my children are gone. One is on a missions trip and the other is at a Christian boys camp. This is the first time that has happened in 13 years. So, what do you do when your children are away?

Lesson 10 is posted

2008-06-23T12:11:00.000-07:00

Lesson 10 is posted for the CWM Online Bible Study. It is about Spiritual Depression. The Bible study can be found at http://cwmbiblestudy.blogspot.com.

Summer break

2008-06-05T10:30:00.001-07:00

What is your favorite thing to do in the summer or when your children are out of school?

A Mother's Day Present for You

2008-05-10T05:41:00.000-07:00

A Friend sent this to me. Happy Mother's Day.

Newborn’s Conversation with God

A baby asked God, “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?” God said, “Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.”

The child further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.” God said, “Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel’s love and be very happy.”

Again the child asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?” God said, “Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.”

“And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” God said, “Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.”

“Who will protect me?” God said, “Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life.”

“But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.” God said, “Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.”

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, “God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel’s name.”

God said, “You will simply call her, Mom.”

-Author unknown

Modest clothing for Preteen/Teen Girls

2008-05-09T19:18:00.000-07:00

We have talked before on this blog about the difficulty of finding modest clothes for girls. I wanted to let you know about a website I found. The website is http://www.purefashion.com/. They do not sell clothes in particular, but they have fashion shows showing how to choose modest clothing. Also, they have modest clothing guidelines you can print out. A great way to have specifics to help your daughter in choosing clothing. Check out the website and they may have a club in your area.

Open Comment Section

2008-05-04T19:49:00.000-07:00

I moved the current Open Comment Section up to the top, so more people could post.
Here are the most recent comments.

Hayley said...
I am a newer mom and teacher who made the decision to go back to work this year.
I did a search and found this site in hopes to be connected with other christian moms, whom at one point or another have faced a difficult decision as career women---what is best for their children and family---remaining at work or transitioning to staying at home. We recently moved and have not found a church family here (which has made this time of my mommy-hood and making the decision to go back to work all that more difficult to get through). I am hoping to get both some prayer from other Christian women as well as advise from anyone else who can offer it and or a verse of encouragement.
Thank you.

April 7, 2008 10:49 PM

Coach Kimberly said...
Hi Hayley,

Welcome to the CWM community. If you would like a prayer partner send an email to me at kimberly@kimberlychastain.com and I will try to match you with someone. Moving to a new town, new job, and a new Mom - you have a lot on your plate. I remember we moved when my daughter was 10 months old and took a long time to find a church. I was extremely lonely. As for going back to work I think each woman struggles with that differently. I am convinced that God does not have a one size plan that fits all. Each family has to pray and decide what is best for their family. On the main page of the CWM site there is an article about what the Bible says about CWM. The verse that stands out for me for you right now is Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, plans to give you hope and a future." Recently, I read a commentary that said it should read for God has thoughts of you. No matter what you are going through right now it does not catch God by surprise. Trust him and ask for his clear guidance. I pray God will be more than sufficient for you right now.

April 8, 2008 5:54 AM

Anonymous said...
Hello -

I'm a CWM - married with a 6 year old son. I sometimes feel a guilty and overwhelmed about not having my house as clean as I wish it was.. Sometimes I think about finding a housekeeper that would come to my house every 2 or 3 weeks to help me clean my home but I immediately feel guilty about having to pay someone to do something I should be doing. What do you suggest I do?

May 1, 2008 5:50 PM

Coach Kimberly said...
Hi Anonymous,

I certainly understand not having enough time to clean. If you can afford to have someone clean your house then do it. You will have more time with you son and be less stressed. When I look at the Proverbs 31 woman it says she managed her servants. So, she probably had someone cooking or even cleaning some. I think as CWMs we do guilt so well. The ultimate goal is getting your house clean, whether you do it or someone else. So, my suggestion is have someone clean and then be able to relax and goof off with you son. Hope that helped some.

May 2, 2008 4:41 AM

What do you like best about being a Mom?

2008-05-04T19:47:00.000-07:00

Share your thoughts in honor of Mother's Day coming up.

What is God Teaching you right now?

2008-04-07T17:08:00.000-07:00

I think we can learn from one another in our walks with God. So are you willing to share what God is teaching you right now in your life? I look forward to God getting the glory for the changes he is making.

Spring Break and Summer Vacation

2008-03-24T08:51:00.000-07:00

My children are on Spring Break this week, so for the most part I'm taking the week off. I am working some from home. How do you handle Spring Breaks and summer vacations? What kind of arrangements do you make for your children? Often my husband and I do tag team parenting. I'm it for this week! Please share.

A Laugh for you Today - a New Survivor game

2008-03-01T08:48:00.000-08:00

A dear friend sent this to me. Enjoy.

THE NEXT SURVIVOR SERIES

Six married men will be dropped on an island with one car and 3 kids
each for six weeks.

Each kid will play two sports and either take music or dance classes
There is no fast food.

Each man must take care of his 3 kids; keep his assigned house clean,
correct all homework, and complete science projects, cook, do laundry,
and pay a list of 'pretend' bills with not enough money.

In addition, each man will have to budget in money for groceries each
week.

Each man must remember the birthdays of all their friends and
relatives, and send cards out on time.

Each man must also take each child to a doctor's appointment, a dentist
appointment and a haircut appointment.

He must make one unscheduled and inconvenient visit per child to the
Urgent Care.

He must also make cookies or cupcakes for a social function.

Each man will be responsible for decorating his own assigned house,
planting flowers outside and keeping it presentable at all times.

The men will only have access to television when the kids are asleep and

all chores are done.

The men must shave their legs, wear makeup daily, adorn himself with
jewelry, wear uncomfortable yet stylish shoes, keep fingernails
polished and eyebrows groomed.

During one of the six weeks, the men will have to endure severe
abdominal cramps, back aches, and have extreme, unexplained mood swings
but never once complain or slow down from other duties.

They must attend weekly school meetings, church, and find time at least
once to spend the afternoon at the park or a similar setting.

They will need to read a book and then pray with the children each
night and in the morning, feed them, dress them, brush their teeth and
comb their hair by 7:00 am.

A test will be given at the end of the six weeks, and each father will
be required to know all of the following information: each child's
birthday, height, weight, shoe size, clothes size and doctor's name.
Also the child's weight at birth, length, time of birth, and length of
labor, each child's favorite color, middle name, favorite snack,
favorite song, favorite drink, favorite toy, biggest fear and what they
want to be when they grow up.

The kids vote them off the island based on performance. The last man
wins only if...he still has enough energy to be intimate with his
spouse at a moment's notice.

If the last man does win, he can play the game over and over and over
again for the next 18-25 years eventually earning the right To be called
Mother!

After you get done laughing, send this to as many females as you think
will get a kick out of it and as many men as you think can handle it.
Just don't send it back to me.... I'm going to bed!

Are you Vulnerable to a Workplace Romance?

2008-02-11T17:34:00.000-08:00

In the February issue of Pearls of Encouragement for Christian Working Moms, I discuss the topic, "Are you Vulnerable to a Workplace Romance?". Please share your thoughts on the article or observations from your workplace.

Open Comment Section

2008-02-08T17:21:00.001-08:00

Please feel free to start new discussions here or ask questions of other CWM's. We have a wonderfully supportive community.

Valentine's Day

2008-02-08T17:20:00.001-08:00

What do you like to give on Valentine's Day and what would you like to receive? My children definitely think the day is for them as well. Chocolate is always good for me. Please share.

Lesson 9 is posted

2008-01-29T09:03:00.000-08:00

Lesson 9 for the CWM Bible Study is posted. We will study Psalm 84. You can find the CWM Bible Study link on the right hand side of this page.

CWM Coaching Tips is Ready!

2008-01-14T14:32:00.000-08:00

The CWM Coaching Tips is ready and available. You can receive a tip a day by email. An announcement will be going out to the CWM list on Wednesday of this week. If you want to go ahead and take a look you can at http://www.kimberlychastain.com/cwmtips.htm.

Prayer Partners

2008-01-07T06:39:00.000-08:00

Are some of you willing to share what it has been like to have a virtual Prayer Partner? Still looking for a Prayer Partner, send an email to kimberly@kimberlychastain.com with Prayer Partner in the Memo line. Can't wait to hear how God is working in your lives.

New Year's Resolutions

2007-12-29T18:04:00.000-08:00

Do you make New Year's Resolutions? If so, what are your New Year's Resolutions? If you don't why not? Do share.

Christmas Traditions

2007-12-03T18:29:00.000-08:00

What Christmas traditions do you have with your family? Did you carry any over from your family of origin? Please share.

Open Comment Section

2007-11-11T13:41:00.001-08:00

Feel free to post any questions or comments here.

Why Women Cry?

2007-11-11T13:38:00.000-08:00

A dear friend sent this to me and I thought I would share it with you. You care deeply for your children and God gave us that gift. Enjoy.

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him."I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?""All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.Finally he asked God. He said, "God, why do women cry so easily?"God said:" When I made the woman she had to be special.I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.""You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Thankfulness

2007-11-07T05:35:00.000-08:00

We are getting ready to enter the "greedy" time of the year. Children will have their wish list for Christmas, etc. How do you teach your children to be thankful? Especially how do you teach them to be thankful and praise God daily?

Lesson 8 is Posted

2007-11-05T06:46:00.000-08:00

Lesson 8 of the CWM Bible Study is now posted at http://cwmbiblestudy.blogspot.com.
The Lesson is entitled, "How do you handle trials?". Feel free to post and share comments.

Halloween

2007-10-26T07:11:00.000-07:00

Usually I post this question each year, but with an added twist. So, do you celebrate Halloween. If so, what do you do? Do you go to a fall festival at your church? Now for the twist. If you children do dress up, what are they going to be this year?